I have come across many a man/woman strugling to stay afloat not able to cope with lifes many issues and trials.
It's to late when you have sacrificed yourself at a young age to fall in love, being imature and unprepared for the responsbility of a relationship.
I advice parents to teach their young ones to wait, and enjoy, play and take time to know themselves before getting involved in a relationship with the opposite sex.
Learning to be yourself, or, getting to know yourself is a hard task in itself. So if you get involved in a serious love relationship at the age of 12-18 or even 20 you have had nothing of your young life.
Divorce in many cases are as a result of this very fact. Young girls today are 21 and have 2 or more kids, with 50 years ahead of you, you'r already old by the time you'r 30 so your life is filled with responsbility way before you are ready for it.
Don't in a hurry take it easy, your life is precious enjoy your young life.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Relationship advice and tips - Don't loose yourself
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| your heart is precious handle it with care |
Do you see.... when looking around while walking through the streets, talking to friends or reading the magazines and newspapers, how many people are hurt and depressed because of lost love? that could very well be because when we love we loose ourselves. What do I mean by " loose ourseves"? Well, do you remember feeling like the person you just met is the last one alive, or, he/she is the best thing that ever happened to you? You'r loosing yourself, or thats when you lost yourself the first time you felt that feeling, is when you lost youself. And for the rest of our days we cry and become bitter with men/woman because NO ONE can ever make you feel complete, you look for that first feeling you got when you met that first girl/boy who made you feel like he/she is the best thing that ever happened to you... It wasn't true hey? or was it? in most casses it was not true.
Infactuation is a very deceiving emotion it missleads you into thinking all kind of stuff, such as I have metioned allready. You have lost yourself by feeling infactuated with someone, it's a passing emotion infactuation is it's not real the oxford dictionary gives it this meaning " filled with intense unreasoning love" there is no reasoning there, in other words you are not thinking straight or you only see what you want to see in the person you are unable to see until it's to late who the person really is.
Think carefully, love is not some game but it's got to do with your heart getting involved in a way that will scare it for life. Before you say "I'm in love". don't loose yourself.
I wrote about this in my website http://www.agapesingles.co.za Relationship Advice and Tips
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